the advise (and why can’t they stopped?)

im a proud mom to Drey Eshan Winardi who is at 4mos was 9.2 Kgs and 67cm..

remember back on, and still until today, i do realized and also warned by lots of book that, along my happy days with baby DEW, there’s going to be lots of advice given.. like it or not.. and yet it is so true! some are just lovable, but some..mmmhhh..better kept to themselves?

Here’re some for example.. and sorry, can’t help it..it’s annoying my nerve!

all started when my mil suggested to put: Scissor (yes, scissor) above baby DEW head to guard him.. can’t believe it! that left me speechless.. and that was told not just once..but more than once everytime baby DEW is crying

other times, my effort to keep baby DEW at home, or in my room was questioned.. he’s only couple months, and yes, of course i should take him out with mosquitos everywhere in the living room, adult programme on and yes, it’s also a smoking room.. it’s not like he’s not doing anything in the room.. baby DEW was learning to communicate with me, i read to him, i play flash card, let him listen to baby music, play tummy time,..and many..and many..

i was almost cracked out when told that baby dew done nothing in the room …

last time i remember, when i took him out, he got cold and cough for a week..

mil relative was coming to visit and commented on me wearing a nursing apron while breastfeeding.. well, hello..i love my baby DEW and tried to take him everywhere with me so i can breastfeed him..and..yes..i choose to have my breast cover while doing it.. what is your problem?

some said that i should have formula to increase my bm supply.. other come up with, drink cough medicine to cure baby DEW when he’s having one.. omg! and this actually come from mil who touched baby DEW right after she was balseming herself..

really, actually.. i love those people, but then for some things, should really keep their opinion to themselves..

at 4 mos, 2wks, baby DEW is awesome..

i feel so blessed and happy..

he loves to rotate, he loves to smile, he chats back when talk to him, he throw tantrum or let other know when he’s hungry or sleepy.. he does great push-up..and giving his best effort when on his tummy to move his body.. he turned when mom or dad enters room and call him by the name..and he rolls over when putting on his tummy to his back..he loves being on his car seat..and he likes pulling all fabric and things when near him..

everyday is a day for us to be greatful to Allah SWT..